I love to read, I love to write, and I love to talk about all things that are the written word.
Well it only took 95 pages, but we finally got some BDSM. Okay, sort of. It was light and very fluffy.
Also, I kind of take issue with telling the sub what your safe word will be AFTER you've already started tying them up. Nor any discussion about limits prior to the play. I know back in the day (many days ago) when I was involved in the community I'd be considered a bad dom for doing something like that.