I've read 95 out of 191 pages.

Surrender - Tawny Taylor

Well it only took 95 pages, but we finally got some BDSM. Okay, sort of. It was light and very fluffy.

 

Also, I kind of take issue with telling the sub what your safe word will be AFTER you've already started tying them up. Nor any discussion about limits prior to the play. I know back in the day (many days ago) when I was involved in the community I'd be considered a bad dom for doing something like that.